| ▲ | Der_Einzige 5 hours ago | |
Can't believe people here try to gaslight me on this topic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KtACIFEddhM "If you're not taken, gay, or furry, the consensus is that dating in SF sucks..." | ||
| ▲ | monknomo 5 hours ago | parent | next [-] | |
It sounds like you are describing a problem with the San Francisco dating scene, which does relate to a small subset of the SWE experience, but hardly covers anything close to the totality of being an SWE. | ||
| ▲ | arjie 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | |
Well, I certainly was not trying to 'gaslight' you considering I repeatedly anchored my view in "for me" and "engineers I know" and then used a statistic to say that my experience seems pretty standard. To gaslight you would be to try to convince you that your experience is not what it was. I have no doubt that one's social context determines the outcomes here a lot. | ||