is there anything, in your view, which would make someones behavior objectively rude?

Yes. Here's an example of one, please don't take it the wrong way...

You know how you just implicitly asked me to give you an example of one even though you asked me only a yes/no question? And you know how the most charitable interpretation of that request is that you actually want to better understand my position and not snidely imply that I don't have one? Well my answer to you is "Go fuck yourself. You aren't worth my time." (sorry, this is an example)

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smokedetector1 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Why is that rude? Youre just expressing yourself. Im responsible for my reaction. Right?

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BugsJustFindMe 3 hours ago | parent [-]

If you don't understand a difference between aggressively demeaning someone and existing in proximity, I don't know how to help you get there.

	▲	smokedetector1 3 hours ago \| parent [-]
		If you don’t understand the difference between existing in proximity and being disruptive then you are inconsiderate