brother i'm trying to tell you that the guy you're asking to be clearer is being vague because he's employing a shibboleth - a "wink wink i'm an og and you can only access me via the secret handshake at our club meeting". not you. i pasted the link because you explicitly say "I can't tell what you mean by this comment" so i'm proposing what they mean.

relax you'll live longer.