I mean, a twice-monthly house-cleaning service is running you ballpark 5k/year and people treat that shit as non-negotiable. I tried to claw back that line item after our second baby was born (wife didn't want them in the house anyway when we had a newborn), and it was completely unsuccessful. She claimed misery and all our friends were on her side.

So the lifestyle stayed inflated.

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soperj an hour ago | parent | next [-]

> ballpark 5k/year

How big is your house? When we had a cleaning lady it was $70 a go. Under $2000 for every second week.

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infecto 24 minutes ago | parent | next [-]

$70 a go? That’s got to be the cash only person to person handshake agreement. That would never buy you laundry too.

I think I remember maybe around $100 including laundry almost 20 years ago and that was a cash type arrangement, weekly including laundry (multi hour visit).

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neutronicus 37 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-]

2500 finished square feet in a MCOL east coast metro (Baltimore).

Wondering if you're closer to the southern border or something.

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pertymcpert an hour ago | parent | prev [-]

I have a 1300 sqft house, 3b2b. Costs me around $200 for a cleaning.

	▲	neutronicus 40 minutes ago \| parent [-]
		Similar here for 2500 finished sq ft.

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qurren 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Yes, but:

1. 80%+ of Americans can't afford house cleaning services. I'm a software engineer in silicon valley and even I clean my own house because I don't think I can afford it. My rents have gone up by more than 5K in the last year, my salary hasn't, so that's coming out of my house cleaning budget.

2. Even if you can afford 5K/year on it, the cleaning service is not an upfront commitment. You can bail anytime when you get laid off and clean your own house.

3. Consumers don't budget rationally. Businesses do.