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ab71e5 3 hours ago

Exactly. I would be insulted if I was part of this layoff, brutal honesty would be much better

ricardobayes 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Not trying to be snarky, but how exactly? How would it help your mental health to be told "your work was borderline useless anyway and we needed to get rid of you to boost shareholder value. Goodbye!"

codegeek 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Because that's the truth and just because you fake empathy, the person getting fired knows what their worth to the company was. Sure there are people who don't prefer to hear the truth but most employees would. In fact, I would go as far as to say that firing someone by accepting the truth is more empathetic than lying to their faces and crying crocodile tears.

logifail 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> How would it help your mental health [...]

...to be told the truth? Quite a lot.

I've been inside companies that had to right-size their teams, it's not pretty, but my goodness honesty from management is better than pretending.

Mezzie 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

I prefer extremely direct communication because it signals respect to me.

Attempts at empathy in cases like this read to me as insulting, like how you'd speak to a toddler. I know you're lying, you know you're lying, and now I have to pretend like I don't know you're lying. It's one more indignity of status being used against me and demanding I play a part and accept the lie, primarily for their ego.

Whereas directness feels more equal to me.