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> I already did.

They repeat multiple times in the article that asking Claude was something they already did. So this isn’t an anti-LLM article.

This seems to be a communication problem. The other party either doesn’t know that they’ve put a lot of effort into researching this already, or their trying to give a gentle let-down instead of saying they don’t have time for this.

For the first case, the solution is to explain what you did to reach this point. People are more interested in helping those who have already tried helping themselves.

The second case is more of a social situation with an infinite number of explanations. Some times you have to read the room and realize that someone may not be interested in having those conversations with you. Some times it’s only in the moment (we all have bad days where we want to be left alone) but other times it’s a signal that they’re not interested in discussing this topic with you or maybe even anyone else.

I agree 100%. I've been the resident 'tech guy' among my friends and family for as long as I can remember, and I thought that LLMs would be the definite end to all 'blurry picture of computer screen captioned with "what should I do"' texts, yet that didn't seem to be the case. In fact, LLMs made it worse, as it actually made me seem more knowledgeable; I would be the one asking AI on their behalf and responding with beautifully formatted, easy to understand answers, encouraging them to ask me more.

I chuckled because, as a joke to express my frustration about this, I made a website called djfa.ai (Dude, Just Fucking Ask AI), which is essentially LMGTFY for ChatGPT. As one can imagine, the gimmick wore off rather quickly with my loved ones (turns out moms of nerds sometimes ask their children tech questions because they miss their voice). I ended up haphazardly turning it into my personal blog, which I sometimes choose to abbreviate and sometimes not on my resume.

I would never have made it in the first place had most of the people asking me questions been like Yael: seeking my informed opinion on thought-provoking questions they'd already researched. Going back to your larger point about the social aspect of it all, even among my wife and my social group, "just ask Claude" is almost the new "I don't really know" or "that's a tough one" when it comes to any sort of question. Almost colloquial in the sense that it isn't to be taken literally, but more as an indication of uncertainty.

> the solution is to explain what you did to reach this point

It's also helpful to the problem-solving and learning processes. For the expert, knowing what you've tried and how it didn't work refines the set of potential problems. For you, it's a free opportunity to get feedback on your methods from someone with domain expertise.

When I post a technical question in Forums, I usually add something like "Tried Copilot, got useless answer ...". The trouble with asking an LLM is that there are a huge number of people (this predates LLMs) who post answers on forums along the lines of "turn it off and turn it on again" LLMs pick that up as the consensus solution.

There is a third case where the other party doesn't realize that the asker lacks the relevant experience to discern good LLM answers from bad answers for that topic.

Same solution as case one though - don't be afraid to say "Claude said X but that doesn't sound right".

Honestly, I think she feels that it’s a new way to say “GOFY.”

She’s a journalist, and, from what I can see, a pretty good one. Someone that is fairly used to being able to talk to very senior people.

I suspect most journalists get told to intercourse themselves, from time to time, but it seems “ask Claude” is a new way of saying it, and, whether it’s meant, or not, a subtle insult. The kind that people like her especially resent. The intimation that she didn’t do her homework. It puts her on her back foot, and I think it’s meant to.

Us nerds can relate. How often are we told that we didn’t do something basic, with the onus on us, to prove we did? For a newb, that’s understandable, but it’s a real slap, for experienced pros.

I fear that it's more insidious than that - that the questions the OP is asking are already things that the other person has decided (consciously or otherwise) that they no longer bother thinking about themselves and just outsource the effort to the nearest LLM

> So this isn’t an anti-LLM article.

It kind of feels like it though. We can be anti-LLM even though it's smart or helpful or whatever. It's reduced so many interesting conversations to this type of boring redirect to just "Ask AI"