| ▲ | throw10920 5 hours ago |
| That's one of the big cultural differences that people from the West don't really get - that "saving face" is one of the core concepts that Eastern societies are built on - not the actual things that, when discovered, cause you to lose face (e.g. corruption). |
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| ▲ | Revanche1367 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| Ah, the old “only western people have morals, everyone else just cares about how it looks” argument. And where did you get this super objective assessment that eastern peoples only care about “saving face”? Couldn’t be a stereotype popularized by western people to feel better about themselves could it? The racists always come out in full force under any post showing an eastern country doing something better than the US in particular. |
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| ▲ | throw10920 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | > Ah, the old “only western people have morals, everyone else just cares about how it looks” argument. That's not even remotely close to what I said. You should read the comment you're responding before responding with ignorant and blatantly manipulative falsehoods. > And where did you get this super objective assessment that eastern peoples only care about “saving face”? Again - never said anything like that. Learn to read. > The racists Actually, learn to think. This has absolutely nothing to do with race, as anyone who has passed high school can tell you. This claim is straight-up objectively false. The second you start slinging the word "racist" around you immediately prove that you have zero valid points to give and are just trying to cry your way into acceptance. Which correlates with the rest of this post. This is either a troll post, written by a middle-schooler, or blatant propaganda. | | |
| ▲ | isr an hour ago | parent [-] | | I'm not the guy who responded to you, but “only western people have morals, everyone else just cares about how it looks” is pretty much what you tried to imply. And before you start on me, yes - I'm able to "think", and no, I'm not a "troll" If its not what you wanted to imply, then perhaps you'd be better served at owning up & clarifying, rather than insulting others who merely pointed out what you originally wrote. And on a general note (not specifically or only you), I'm somewhat amused (in a morbid sense) at the sheer predictability of some of the "oh no, don't you dare try to impugn any moral superiority to that lot over there, vs us westerners" reactions. Refreshing to see how even after a multi year ongoing genocide, kidnappings other countries presidents, and triple-tap bombing little girls elementary schools, westerners still feel they own the "moral high ground" (wherever that is anymore ...) |
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| ▲ | SepiaSapient 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| (Spoilers for The Wire) I buy the whole thing that some cultures give more weight to face-saving than others. I would classify my supposedly western country (Chile) as one that gives it more weight than, for example, Germany. Even then, this just sounds like a kneejerk "you cannot trust these dastardly orientals". Face saving is a thing in the US, to the point that it's a common plot point prestige TV (e.g most of The Wire). It's an accepted fact in political campaign with spin doctors. The 30K in credit card debt to keep up appearances is also face culture. The hustle culture, etc. You don't need to be racist, you just can be skeptic of the claims of an autocratic government. |
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| ▲ | throw10920 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | Nowhere did I say that Western countries don't care about saving face - it's just not a deeply embedded cultural priority that is nearly as valued as it is in many Eastern cultures (including, relevantly, China). |
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| ▲ | anigbrowl 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Saving face is certainly A Thing, but China has also had a strict legalistic tradition extending back about 2500 years. There's rather more to Chinese public life and philosophy than 'Confucius say' and the CCP. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legalism_(Chinese_philosophy) |
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| ▲ | throw10920 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | You got it. I'm not saying that saving face is the only cultural priority - just that it's a much greater one than in most Western cultures - and most Westerners don't understand that, and that leads to misunderstanding of the mindset and rationale for actions and decisions. |
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| ▲ | dnautics 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| yeah since when does "saving face" not happen in the West? Isn't there a war in europe that's been going on for four-ish years now that essentially a face-saving operation that has killed nearly a million? |
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| ▲ | underlipton 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | There was a great essay I read a few years ago that I can't locate, about how much of Western society is driven by the threat or actualization of humiliation. The Black Freedom Struggle (all incarnations) was won (inasmuch as it was won) not really through moral appeals or the imposition of practical reality, as much as through the humiliation of the slaver/segregationist position on the global stage and in the media. You want to win? Make them look stupid in such a way that continuing to fight makes them look even more stupid. Pain doesn't stop people, practical futility doesn't stop people; but, faced with the prospect of being considered persona non grata or a laughing stock or just robbed of their dignity, whether they win or lose, that is when people will call the match and walk off. So, yes, face is a Western thing, too. | | |
| ▲ | iamnothere 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I would say it’s worse in the West, as we have generalized the concept across society to the point where our politicians (and even our militaries) are only able to fight symbolically. Actual ground truth has become secondary. See also: oil futures, politicians who feud over “vibes” instead of tangible policy, constant symbolic strikes in war with no results, etc. |
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| ▲ | ClumsyPilot 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Wasnt the especially hard trial and punishment of Chelsea manning, assange, etc. not a punishment by the western establishment for losing face? |
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| ▲ | blaufuchs 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Yeah it’s pretty funny how worked up the CCP get when they’re called out. “How dare you accuse us of launching a spy balloon?”. Whereas Russia hits you with the “oh those aren’t FSB agents, just lovers on vacation ;)” |
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| ▲ | ClumsyPilot 3 hours ago | parent [-] | | Well I given that it wasn’t a spy balloon in the end, perhaps they had a point | | |
| ▲ | nixon_why69 an hour ago | parent [-] | | I mean, the entire concept of "spy balloon over the continental US in the 21st century" could be considered a litmus test for critical thinking. A country with satellites is running a Wile E. Coyote tier balloon plot? |
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