No, you don't "get that".

As someone who grew in poverty and neglect (thankfully less so physical abuse), and whose lifeline was a free, open and full access to the libraries since the ripe age of 6, I'll just say that yours "there is a system to mitigate damage" is terribly ignorant and indeed privileged, but "this will fail some kids" is just plain awful - indifferent and careless.

Look outside.