that's the only card I can use

That gives me a "there's probably more to this story" feeling. Though I understand that there are people without multiple credit cards, getting a second credit card and/or debit card is not difficult under ordinary circumstances.

Most probably because my vpn was on I got banned

This reinforces my "there's probably more to this story."

Whenever I read posts like this I get the missing missing reasons vibes.

https://issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing...