| ▲ | swiftcoder 2 hours ago | |
In the context the article intends, the trace isn't really for you, it's for the people you interact with | ||
| ▲ | jongjong 2 hours ago | parent [-] | |
I don't believe in that definition of altruism. To me, true altruism is selfish. If helping people makes you feel good, then you're an altruist. If helping others doesn't make you feel good innately but you do it all for others then I think there is some self-deception at play. Maybe it's a status or self-image thing? Because being an altruist is higher status and you want to see yourself as high status? I think you can always trace it back to a selfish motive at some level. Denying the selfish root of altruism can lead to hypocrisy because there is a dissonance between who the individual really is in their natural state and who they want to believe themselves to be. They have to constantly work to be who they aspire to be; it's not second nature to them and they will frequently fall short whenever it slips their mind or when they occasionally give in to natural impulses. Good on them for trying I guess. Better than not trying at all. But they're not an altruist. I believe Richard Dawkins' "The Selfish Gene" backs me up on this point. Altruism is a either a kin-selection process or a reciprocal (transactional) process. | ||