Because family brings vurnersbility and vurnersbility brings dependence on stability aka conservatism. The phase of life you start into with one another transports you right into adulthood and responsibility. And some just dont grow up to that. Some eternally leech on others. And all the nice words and good intent wont fix that.

What an incredibly callous comment that both manages to assume everyone should have the same goals you've decided are proper, to completely disregard socioeconomic, environmental and genetic differences which can cause life to be a breeze for some and a constant struggle for others.