The same is true to a lesser extent in MySQL / MariaDB. It does better since it doesn’t do oldest-to-newest tuple chains, but it’s still adding non-trivial work to the DB, much of which is effectively wasted if you don’t care about the visibility of the deleted (or soon-to-be deleted) tuples to other transactions.

I sincerely hope that Planetscale’s efforts succeed long-term to shift devs’ understanding and acceptance of RDBMS operations. Their blog posts and docs are generally quite good. IME, devs (and even ops-ish teams) simply do not care about all of this, and will create elaborate bespoke tooling to run DELETEs in bulk, because they either don’t understand the capabilities of the database, or don’t want to deal with the [minor] increased complexity that a partitioned schema brings, and will happily pay the extra cost / latency for deletions.

mysql/maria also lets you turn off/down the isolation level for queries if you know the guarantees aren't needed, to speed things up. I think postgres does not have that option.