Happy to chat about this, but we use the AWS secrets manager flowing into External Secrets Operator to generate a pgdog_users.toml. We then kick off a workflow to refresh things, but our rate of change here is much smaller than a super dynamic multi-tenant system.

You could also build a watcher side car that watches for changes of the pgdog_users.toml and have pgdog refresh itself then too with this combination. We thought about that but prefer to control the reloads for our needs.