Should those other people be made to RTO and spend less time around their kids, to fill in your isolated lifestyle?

Isn't that kind of how society works? i.e. If a senior employee benefitted from having close mentorship and a strong social network when they were a junior, then they may wish to pay it forward by being present and mentoring juniors now that they're a senior.

Yeah probably, the outlook for their kids ain't looking so great.

Yes.