I bought my house about 10 years ago and it has appreciated around 50% since then. That might sound good but the market is up massively and meanwhile all the price increase on paper means is that I pay more property tax. Since I have no plans to sell there is no actual benefit to me from the price increasing.

I calculated it recently and in retrospect I would have been vastly better off renting and buying VOO with my equity stake. It doesn’t help that taxes + maintenance have cost almost the same as rent even if you don’t count the actual purchase price.

“ the price increase on paper means is that I pay more property tax”

In almost all jurisdictions that’s not how property tax works. You’d only pay proportionally more if your home went up more in value than your neighbors. Also, property tax goes up on rentals too, it’s just baked into the rent vs something a separate charge. In the US the homeowner gets to deduct all or part of that tax from their income taxes while the renter must pay that with after tax dollars.