Sure, for one category of music in some cities there's a resource. There are often community-curated lists that have some things, but if you want specific things or if you want everything/most things, it's the big platforms.

I'm part of some local photography groups. There's a Discord where members plan informal get togethers, but the big events are all posted on Instagram.

I follow a number of local bartenders, and their popup events are all on Instagram. Same for local performing artists.

My bike club coordinates through a Facebook page.

Honestly, none of my non-tech interests are viable (in a group setting) without Meta properties.

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loloquwowndueo an hour ago | parent [-]

Get different interests then?

It’s like saying “none of my group interests are viable unless I smoke”.

	▲	Arainach 37 minutes ago \| parent [-]
		I find a life surrounded only by people who already do the things I do unfulfilling. I also find that almost no one who works outside of tech cares enough about privacy or other issues to care to move off the big platforms. I already spend my entire work day surrounded by tech workers, I'm not going to change my hobbies to spend more time around them.