It is powerful, but I'm not sure it is a good idea. Other languages have it, and there is lots of experience in all the ways things go wrong in the real world. I'm inclined to say you should hand write this code because eventually you will discover something weird anyway.

I disagree. Rust's defacto default is serde, golang comes with batteries included, dotnet/java have had it for _years_, and all the dynamic languages do it.

Can you give an example of a language ecosystem that went with reflection-based JSON serialization/deserialization and then went on to regret it? I can't think of any, and don't agree with your conclusion. It works great, and manually writing serialization and matching deserialization code is terrible, annoying, error-prone work.

I think this is a very bad take -- once you write it by hand you have to manually keep it in sync with the actual struct and ensure you made no mistakes. Reflection guarantees 1-1 future-proof mapping with the actual C++ struct, avoids boilerplate, and ensures that the serialization logic is correct.