Oh I will blame them.

Working at Facebook means you optimized ruthlessly for $$$$$ only, absolutely nothing else.

Working at Facebook means you are a leetcode monkey and could as well pass other interviews somewhere else and get paid 10% less. But to you, destroying democracy and killing teenager was worth those extra 10%

Working at Facebook means you became a millionaire, even if you joined mid-career a couple years ago because of the stock inflation.

No they are not just trying to feed their family. 99% of them are ruthlessly optimizing to make the most money possible to live in the top 1%, while completely dismissing all the bad Facebook, Meta and Instagram do in the world. No sympathy.

And please don't compare someone making 800k$ with someone scanning a ticket for Ticketmaster for minimum wage. At those income levels, who you work for DOES matter.