| ▲ | quiet35 a day ago | ||||||||||||||||
I see at least 2 issues with the physical punishment: - it will only make the bullies taking their revenge on vulnerable ones with even more cruelty. And they will plan it carefully to be hard/impossible to prove. It will lead to the escalation, not to the resolution - the power will be abused, it's inevitable. I would be so scared to be in a class where "teacher" has the power to harm me physically! (to clarify: I am very much out of the school age, but just thinking about this perspective is making me feel uneasy) So what is the possible solution then? Protect those who are vulnerable. And work with bullies to resolve/ease their life issues. I suspect most of them do what they do because of tough situation in family. In severe cases, I can think of suspension or exclusion from school or another kind of isolation. Probably way better than showing ALL kids that violence is a fine casual way to solve issues. Applying violence to kids is not the way to make them stop applying violence to others. | |||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | InsideOutSanta 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
Looking back at my own time in school, my primary bully already got beaten up by his own parents, which probably caused him to act out in school in the first place. I would not wish him to also get beaten by the school, and I do not believe that this would have helped me in any way. | |||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | abc123abc123 33 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
Violence is not binary. A light slap in the face can be very beneficial for snapping hysterical children out of tantrums. This is proven! Caning people for mistakes humiliates them, and creates in them, the desire for vengeance. Violence at that level, breeds violence. They will hit their children, who will hit their children in turn, and on and on it goes. This is also proven! I say, remove the naughty children and put them in work/vocational training. Life will punish them enough, later on, if they do not change their ways. Another way is to punish the parents of naughty children. They are, ultimately, responsible, and if they raised bullies, they should be punished. | |||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | davyAdewoyin a day ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
As I previously mentioned, if you actually grew up in a system where corporal punishment is carried out, you would find that point two is not such a bother. No one cares whether a parent or teacher can cane them except they were in the wrong of course, perhaps because it is a culture and a shared experience and I knew a lot of children growing up who prefer the canning to other form of punishment. I think the issue lies in your conflating caning and other forms of corporal punishment with physical harm. It is not the same as hitting a student or throwing a bottle at someone; it can be done very humanely. Sure, abuse is inevitable, and I could point to many teachers who were terrible and took out their issues on students, but such cases were easily resolved by reporting them to the principal or bringing parents to school the next day to file a complaint. In | |||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | latentsea 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
There's entire classes of people who base their employment centrally around an occupation that enables their worst vices. I'd wager there's a group of people who have no interest in becoming a teacher but put corporal punishment on the table and suddenly they're interested. | |||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | ryandrake 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
> - the power will be abused, it's inevitable. I would be so scared to be in a class where "teacher" has the power to harm me physically! (to clarify: I am very much out of the school age, but just thinking about this perspective is making me feel uneasy) Absolutely. I would never agree to allow teachers the ability to apply violence to my kid with no due process or proof of wrongdoing. Teachers play favorites and can be just as bad bullies as the other students. They should be able to strike my kid with "trust me bro" as proof that she did wrong? No fucking way on Earth. | |||||||||||||||||
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| ▲ | naasking 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | ||||||||||||||||
> it will only make the bullies taking their revenge on vulnerable ones with even more cruelty. And they will plan it carefully to be hard/impossible to prove. It will lead to the escalation, not to the resolution Bullies are generally not very intelligent. Deterrents absolutely do work if applied consistently. A society that applies corporal punishment at multiple levels, as Singapore does, strongly ingrains the idea to straighten yourself out, because there's always someone with a bigger stick. > In severe cases, I can think of suspension or exclusion from school or another kind of isolation. In my experience, this isn't the deterrent you think it is. | |||||||||||||||||
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