| ▲ | pjmlp 3 hours ago | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
That mostly works when you're single and without any hard ties. Uprooting a well grown tree isn't easy. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
| ▲ | mothballed 3 hours ago | parent [-] | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
There's also some double standards. If you walk from Ecuador to Texas, passing through the Darien Gap and one of your kids gets ripped into some river never to be seen again, finally showing up in El Paso to sleep under a bridge until the heat exhaustion goes away, then you are a glorious immigrant who put it all on the line to give your family a better life. If you hitch-hike from California to Vermont while feeding your kids whatever rats and river water you can dredge up and then set up a tent in the forest until you can score a job at Dollar General, then you are an evil neglectful bastard and the state will be on your ass and take your kids away. You might be better off actually moving countries if you are broke. Because for whatever reason it is better tolerated because you can just say you were broke and your children went through hard times because the last country was evil or something. | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
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