Not sure about 6 since even for basic models, you'll have to reconsider your gear compared to something that just is a media server/basic homelab. But everything else is pretty doable with open source apps today.

But it is not hands-off and will never really be as hands-off as what google offers since thats basically a massive part of what makes it easy to use and something that self-hosted open source apps cannot do by design of being self-hosted.

You cannot eat your cake and have it too.

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JohnFen 7 hours ago | parent [-]

This.

I do all of this (except 6) on my own servers and don't rely on service providers for it.

> But it is not hands-off and will never really be as hands-off as what google offers

True, but it's also not a lot of work. I think I spend, on average, about 2-4 hours per month on maintaining my setup.

	▲	altmanaltman 7 hours ago \| parent [-]
		Yeah if you know what you're doing, its not really a chore. Or I don't see it like that since I enjoy doing it and know my way around my system well. But if you're coming from a non-technical background, its very different since there is also a learning curve and the fear that you might accidently do something bad to your system (and thats a problem if it contains important things like family photos etc).