Pretty surprising -- I had much the opposite experience.

On our last product, we decided to start switching from Typescript to Rust on the backend because we got tired of crashes. I consider that to be one of the greatest technical mistakes I've made ever, as our productivity slowed massively. I'll just share two time-draining issues that only occur in Rust: (1) Writing higher-order functions (e.g.: a function to open a database connection, do something, and then close it -- yes, I know you can use RAII for this particular example), which is trivial in Haskell and TypeScript and JavaScript and C++ and PHP, turned out to be so impossible in Rust [even after asking Rust-expert friends for help], that I learned to just give up and never try, though it sometimes worked to write a macro instead. (2) It's happened many times that I would attempt a refactoring, spend all day fixing type errors, finally get to the top-level file, get a type error that's actually caused somewhere else by basic parts of the design, and conclude the entire refactoring I had attempted is impossible and need to revert everything.

On top of that, Rust is the only modern language I can name where using a value by its interface instead of its concrete type lies somewhere between advanced and impossible, depending on what exactly you're doing.

I came away concluding that application code (as opposed to systems or library code) should, to a first approximation, never be written in Rust.

Maybe it depends on the application, but web servers are effortless with something like axum. Libraries can do a lot of heavy lifting to expose straightforward coding patterns. Never had any problems like you desribed with database connections and such. In rust with db pools things just work and get closed on drop etc. I would never even consider making a higher order function for that.

Only other language that I think gets close to rust ergonomics is Kotlin, but it suffers from having too many possibilities for abstractions.

That is a very unusual Rust experience. I find "application code" very pleasant to write in Rust. Of course there are things that aren't as ergonomic in Rust as in other languages (e.g. callbacks) but that's true of pretty much any language.