Right! I am very open about the sleep challenges I face with my children, but I also believe that the problem is due to lack of a rigid schedule. Routine is key not only for sleep, but general development. Unfortunately, I haven’t figured out how to get on the same page with my spouse about this.

Haha, getting on the same page was easy for us cause I’m a light sleeper and our little dude was waking up every ~1 hr for weeks during the night so I’d wake up when my wife fed him. We hit our breaking point when we were both so tired we couldn’t set up a pack and play after about 30 mins of trying.