> you chose that instance because you're OK with that admin making choices for you

Nobody chooses instances for that, very few know anything about the admin, people just like the content until... in >70% of cases, bait and switch follows

That's why Mastodon is such an incredible mess, it creates the conditions for serious problems, then goes: "you chose what you knew nothing about, nor there's any way to know anything, therefore... you are the problem".