I'd honestly argue the opposite. Staying with an abusive partner is not likely to resolve the abuse, no matter how much you think so.

Ghostty and others leaving might be the only way that active users could actively and visibly signal a need for change.

I think OP is basically applying "vote with your wallet" strategy and/or some kind of "action speaks louder than words". As I understood from the article, they have been vocal about trying to change things, but they are shouting into the ether since nothing has changed and in fact only getting worse.

There’s a difference between a relationship with a person and an organization. I think the difference is large enough that the analogy doesn’t really hold.