That's one reason I've always used Traefik as my Ingress (I work mostly with K3S, which uses it by default). Which appears to have had its own security issues too, but it still looks like an implementation issue, not a weakness designed in by the spec.

On EKS I'm using whatever AWS has brewed up to integrate ELB/ALB, but I'll tend to trust it ... though maybe I shouldn't, given all the troubles I have with other integrations like secrets management.