If you’re willing to share:

Do you know your EBV/Lyme statuses?

History of other infections, and/or flu-like symptoms, low-level or otherwise?

I’ve had mono but not Lyme. My initial symptoms predated mono and started from infancy - but I’m on the very severe end of the spectrum. Most people don’t get hit with it until their 20s and 30s.

I think a lot of similar conditions have hEDS as the predisposition but are triggered differently. Some people need a bigger trigger than others.