| ▲ | ozgrakkurt 8 hours ago |
| Seriously. I see at least one baby with a phone in hand every time I go out. This is 100% an education issue and they don't understand how harmful that can be to their child's brain. Governments are focusing on banning things because some reason but real solution is education and support imo. Similar issue with school shottings. Government wants to ban guns or put controls on schools but they don't invest enough on mental health, it is almost if they are incapable of understanding that a healthy person wouldn't choose to do this. The social media ussue is similar imo, parents don't understand how harmful it is to the brain. It is harmful for adults and it is even worse for children |
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| ▲ | pj_mukh 8 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| "This is 100% an education issue" It is not. Most parents I know have seen what it does to their kids, but have zero childcare. I have a white-collar remote job and can police my kids. If I was dual-parent working class, I don't think I'd be able to pull it off. I'm glad these laws are getting on the books, so at least the peer pressure of a classroom can get to a good majority of kids. The kid with the iPad at the restaurant is just saliency bias ("I see it everywhere!"). This is not that different from blaming parents for sending their kids to school hungry or for their kids getting abducted or some such. Social media is a vortex with a very strong societal pull. |
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| ▲ | mytailorisrich 8 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | It is a parenting issue. As a parent you can only get your children a smartphone when you decide they are old enough, and then iOS and Android have parental control down to app level. Decent schools also ban phones now as well. | | |
| ▲ | pj_mukh 7 hours ago | parent [-] | | "Decent schools also ban phones now as well." Yes and decent countries ban social media, because like schools, the countries recognize this is a collective action issue. You get your children a smartphone when it becomes the only way they can connect with their peers. That's my point. | | |
| ▲ | mytailorisrich 7 hours ago | parent [-] | | That's very different from schools banning use of phone during school hours. And, no, your role as parent is not to blindly follow the herd if you think it is not good. That's certainly true for smartphones and, again, there is parental control if/when you get your children a smartphone. You can only bring a horse to water, as the saying goes... My cynical take is that social media are a convenient tool for government to justify more identification and control. ID cards, digital IDs, age verification systems, lack of anonymity, etc almost literally justified by "just think of the children". | | |
| ▲ | pj_mukh 7 hours ago | parent [-] | | "your role as parent is not to blindly follow the herd if you think it is not good." This is just conservative individual responsibility pablum just re-imagined for IT. "It doesn't matter if all of societies forces + giant multi-national tech corporations are conspiring to trap your child, individual responsibility is all that matters" This argument doesn't work for smoking or drinking, and it shouldn't for social media. | | |
| ▲ | mytailorisrich 7 hours ago | parent [-] | | I am describing basic parenting and you immediately and bizarrely jump to conservatism and corporate conspiracy... ok that's all for me. | | |
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| ▲ | shevy-java 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | > It is not. Most parents I know have seen what it does to their kids, but have zero childcare. And you are able to tell this ... how exactly? Why should other parents care about YOUR opinion in this regard? Because ultimately this comes down to a difference in opinion. |
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| ▲ | postexitus 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Why not sell cigarettes and alcohol to kids, but also educate them that it's harmful? |
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| ▲ | rgblambda 8 hours ago | parent | next [-] | | A VPN can't get around a cigarette and alcohol ban. Perhaps children should be given locked down phones, with fines for parents who buy non child safe phones for their kids. It would take time for this to take effect but a social media ban would actually be effective at the end. | | |
| ▲ | postexitus 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | Just like you can't get around a random adult buying for kids. It's just a imperfect deterrent. Although I agree- hardware level control would be so much better. Apple's on-device age checks can be a good compromise. | | |
| ▲ | Aurornis 8 hours ago | parent [-] | | > Just like you can't get around a random adult buying for kids. It's just an imperfect deterrent. This argument feels really weak. Convincing an adult to buy alcohol for kids is dramatically more difficult on average than setting up a VPN. If you’re on this tech website you should know that it’s not hard to get VPN access even with cash by buying cards at retail. You can also use one of the various free (ad supported or spyware) VPN products. It’s nothing like trying to involve another adult and asking them to take on the legal liability of that action. | | |
| ▲ | postexitus 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | Is it though? Do you actually live in the UK? Do you want to know how often it happens in London? | | |
| ▲ | rgblambda 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I live in the UK, though not in London. I can count on one hand the number of times a group of children asked me to buy alcohol for them. So it's not that it doesn't happen, but it almost never happens. Compare standing outside a supermarket, repeatedly begging passers by to commit a crime for you every time you want alcohol, with the one time action of installing a VPN client on your device and it's obvious one law is enforceable while the other is not. |
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| ▲ | benj111 8 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | | The harm hasn't been adequately demonstrated though. Whereas we know cigarettes are harmful to everyone. Alcohol in the UK can be consumed in the house from 5 years old. Which is the point. That societal norms at work. Everyone knows it's not ok to let your young kids get drunk, but we trust society to let parents decide what is appropriate and when. | | |
| ▲ | postexitus 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | Following the same analogy, they can use parent’s phones to access social media under supervision. |
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| ▲ | Aurornis 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| > Seriously. I see at least one baby with a phone in hand every time I go out. Where do you live where this is normal? I’m a parent who spends a lot of time going on walks and to parks with my kids most days of the week. It’s rare for me to see kids with tablets or phones in their hands. When I do it’s kind of surprising. |
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| ▲ | noworriesnate 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Making it illegal will raise awareness about how addictive social media is, i.e. it will educate people |
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| ▲ | burningChrome 8 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| Anecdotal evidence that made me smile a bit. Was at my daughter volleyball game a few years back. Sitting in the gym. In walks mom with a baby girl and a boy that looked around 10ish. They sit down. Mom gives the baby the ipad to futz around with. The son? Takes out his book and starts to quietly read. It was an interesting contrast to say the least. This is also something I've heard from my son about more kids are getting off of social media, or giving it up for other means to communicate. My son just graduated HS and said all of his peers have left Facebook, Snapchat, X and several others. He said his generation now sees social media as something for Boomers and my (Gen X) generation. He said people think you're lame if you're still on social media. Everything is now back to Discord servers and other platforms like 4Chan. Anonymous, under the radar stuff, out of the prying eyes of adults. |
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| ▲ | turtlesdown11 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| > This is 100% an education issue and they don't understand how harmful that can be to their child's brain. Which social media companies are acknowledging there is a problem and providing data to inform parents? |
