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timschmidt a day ago

If you can't suffer some words, then your brother and I have a much higher pain tolerance than you do. lol

Will you DIE from words like your brother and I from our allergens? If not you can calm down about it. Unlike us you can just walk away from this. If it causes you suffering you're choosing to suffer by engaging in the conversation. That's not good for you. Take care of yourself.

kulahan 10 hours ago | parent [-]

No, which is why I’m not being insufferable, lmao.

As a side note, I get the chide about labeling. You might accidentally eat cat and die! It slips in all the time! Granted, the labeling is not enough to protect him due to the severity of his allergy. Don’t try to bring him down to your level. It’ll take months anyways.

timschmidt 8 hours ago | parent [-]

> No, which is why I’m not being insufferable

At this point you're interpreting genuine care and empathy for your brother's condition and appreciation for a hard-fought safety measure as chide. I remember when it was enacted. And a win for any of us is a win for all of us. Re-evaluate that assumption of yours.

You're right that a respiratory and contact allergy wouldn't benefit from food labels. Safety labels for folks like me would go on buildings, especially public spaces. And they would absolutely be helpful. The ADA does have some protections for folks with respiratory allergies in public spaces, but they're somewhat severely limited to a 6mo period after which filing an enforcement action is not possible. If you miss it, tough luck.

You are demonstrating to others the sort of attitude folks like your brother and I encounter constantly. So thanks for that. It's good for folks to see that just talking about the things that I and others like me experience and expressing care for others with similar conditions is enough to elicit hate. Because that's not uncommon. Most folks like me have dealt with that behavior, and nothing you say about me or my allergy will have any effect other than reflecting on yourself.

kulahan 6 hours ago | parent [-]

No, you’re just insanely annoying. Imagine writing such a tirade over people owning pets lol. Man, you are SUCH a victim.

Can you honestly not see how melodramatic you’re being? Like this has to be an act, yeah?

timschmidt 5 hours ago | parent [-]

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