I probably use a different interpretation of Postel's law. I try not "break" for anything I might receive, where break means "crash, silently corrupt data, so on". But that just means that I return an error to the sender usually. Is this what Postel meant? I have no idea.

Yea, I interpret it as the same thing: On invalid input, don't crash or give the caller a root shell or whatever, but definitely don't swallow it silently. If the input is malformed, it should error and stop. NOT try to read the user's mind and conjure up some kind of "expected" output.