You're not wasting your time, my friend. But you've got to be very certain and honest as to why you want to learn that.

If your goal is being heard and appreciated, well, you better reconsider.

If you're doing it for your own pleasure and pure love of art, absolutely do go on, without any expectations. It may or may not take off, but the samurai must not care.

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101008 5 hours ago | parent | next [-]

Agree 100% with this and I also think the default mindset of "being heard and appreciated / make some money out of this" is very recent and only from the last (or two) decade(s).

In the past learning a skill and do something was mostly for pleasure, and something that would stay in your inner circle of friends. Maybe one of your friends would tell his other group of friends but that would be it.

Now internet gave us the opportunity to reach the whole world and that changed the expectations.

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coldtea 3 hours ago | parent | next [-]

>I also think the default mindset of "being heard and appreciated / make some money out of this" is very recent and only from the last (or two) decade(s).

Artists wanted to "be heard and appreciated" since they started banging rocks together for rhythm and painting on cave walls...

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berdario 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> "being heard and appreciated" ... is very recent and only from the last (or two) decade(s).

I think that in the past it was just a lot more difficult to *not* be heard or appreciated at all

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user1847272 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

> make some money out of this

The OP never said this. You and a few other commenters seem to think being heard == being an influencer that’s in it for the money.

> and something that would stay in your inner circle of friends. Maybe one of your friends would tell his other group of friends but that would be it.

That’s what being heard and appreciated is.

	▲	awfulneutral 3 hours ago \| parent \| next [-]
		Yeah. People act like it's a sin to want some notice or respect when you've worked and achieved something, like you should be some zen-like creature that is purely intrinsically motivated. It is not wrong to want some notice or respect from your peers once in a while.
	▲	strangegecko 2 hours ago \| parent \| prev [-]
		I probably should have provided more context, but it's all rather off topic. However, I guess my life is strange enough so that people made assumptions around my original statements that don't reflect my meaning. Quite frankly, I'm friendless and have very low self esteem and have felt "not good enough" for most of my life. I remember building Lego starships with a friend a long time ago, and I felt that on a fundamental level, nothing I could ever make would match what he could build. It was like a law of nature that I'm flawed in that way. Any new interest that came into life also came from friends. Nothing ever originated with me, I didn't have the confidence for that. Having others to collaborate with automatically validates what I do, in a way. It's possible I simply never learned how to self validate activities. My need for validation is a very childlike one, it's rooted in emotional neglect. I remember my mom praising other people but never finding praise within our family. One of many things that planted seeds of this sense of fundamental inferiority. Then life solidified that in various ways.

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krat0sprakhar 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Can't agree with this more. I also started learning guitar and producing music very recently. I have no interest in getting heard and appreciated (on most days atleast).

It has been a tremendously rewarding journey to create new music and see myself improve. 10/10 would do again.

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nathancahill 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> the samurai must not care

Definitely recommend to OP to explore the modern warrior philosophy drawing from bushido.

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TyrunDemeg101 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I 100% agree with this and have found it to entirely be my own drive for learning and creating.

For me it is beyond trying to make money or become famous, it is simply to enjoy the journey and the creativity that comes with creating music.

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strangegecko 6 hours ago | parent [-]

> For me it is beyond trying to make money or become famous,

To clarify, when I speak of "approval", I'm not imagining a successful career or financial success. It's much more basic, i.e. having a few people tell me they genuinely like something I created would do that.

> it is simply to enjoy the journey and the creativity that comes with creating music.

It's unfortunately not simple for me (again, context of long term burnout / depression etc). If I only go by enjoyment, I will watch TV and maybe read and go on bike rides until the end of my days. But that is not fulfilling in the long term. I have a creative drive, but it's rather intermittent and not enough to consistently want to do the work involved. I'm trying to nurture it.

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mtizim 5 hours ago | parent | next [-]

If you're after that, try performing for (campfire guitar? Christmas carols?) or with (entry level jams, especially electronic ones) other people. Much easier to start out that one would think, but it requires a lot of self-confidence. With performing, you can scratch that creative itch by adapting/embellishing source material. A small lick here and there or a handful of alternative voicings are enough!

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StilesCrisis 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Uh, have you tried rhythm games?

You can scratch the same music-exploration itch with a much lower time commitment and get the same thrill of accomplishment as you improve. There is also a built-in crowd of other players at any skill level that you can share your achievements with.

It's not the same glassy-eyed state as you'd get with normal video games, TV, or doom scrolling at all. You will need to focus and clear the mind.

	▲	chickensong 3 hours ago \| parent \| next [-]
		OP said they're trying to nurture their creative drive, which is not the same itch. It's like someone saying they want to learn how to cook, and you recommend they microwave a TV dinner.
	▲	rune-dev 2 hours ago \| parent \| prev [-]
		Nothing against rhythm games. But actually creating music or playing an instrument is much more rewarding. The time commitment is part of it, the journey is the destination and all that.

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dtauzell 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Also, find other people to produce/create music with. Then at least a few others are going to listen. It is way more fun that way.

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vasco 7 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

Some people just never found what that thing is for them. And usually you find those things doing them the hard way while you suck. And then the reward is people will see what you do and recognize the work you put in. But if suddenly every person with a prompt does the exact same thing with zero effort, it does take away from the joy of doing it. At least if the joy of doing it is related to the feeling of liking to do "hard things" or liking to think of oneself as one that "does hard things". And I'd say that includes a lot of people and a lot of activities.

I bet a lot of accountants in the old days were really good at basic math, and proud of being fast and accurate and now there's calculators and the amount of people that work on mental math just for the love of the game is probably super small in comparison to when it was a core skill of many more people's jobs.

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52-6F-62 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

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