I've learnt that if a test only fails sometimes, it can take a long time for somebody to actually investigate the cause,in the meantime it's written off as just another flaky test. If there really is a bug, it will probably surface sooner in production than it gets fixed.

Flaky tests are a very strong signal of a bug, somewhere. Problem is it's not always easy to tell if the bug's in the test or in the code under test. The developer who would rather re-run the test to make it pass than investigate probably thinks it's the test which is buggy.

sadly yes

people often take flaky test way less serious then they should

I had multiple bigger production issues which had been caught by tests >1 month before they happened in production, but where written off as flaky tests (ironically this was also not related to any random test data but more load/race condition related things which failed when too many tests which created full separate tenants for isolation happened to run at the same time).

And in some CI environments flaky test are too painful, so using "actual" random data isn't viable and a fixed seed has to be used on CI (that is if you can, because too much libs/tools/etc. do not allow that). At least for "merge approval" runs. That many CI systems suck badly the moment you project and team size isn't around the size of a toy project doesn't help either.