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kstrauser 3 hours ago

> Most people with down syndrome live happy, fulfilling lives.

Correction: the people with Down Syndrome who are capable of meaningfully responding to the question answered a certain way on one survey. Down's affects different people differently. There are plenty of people who don't have the mental facilities to understand the question, let alone respond.

I've seen this kind of argument with autism, too. People here on HN will point out that they were diagnosed with autism and still have rich, meaningful lives. I don't doubt that for one moment! Still, my family lived next to a family with a profoundly autistic, nonverbal kid, and their lives were hard. The parents are lovely people but they were at their wits' end dealing with the consequences of his condition. When people talk about nebulous things like "a cure for autism", they don't mean a way to help the HN folks who have jobs and friends and families. They're talking about my next door neighbor who liked to take off his pants and run around naked outside.

I imagine it's the same here. There's the occasional news story about someone with Down Syndrome graduating college and getting married. They're doing fine. It'd still be nice to find a way to help those who'd never be able to make it to kindergarten.

BrandoElFollito 3 hours ago | parent [-]

I agree. I have two friends with light autism that does not impact their mental faculties (the old Asperger's) and they have happy lives because they are different enough to be interesting. Work, family, hobbies, everything.

You push this difference a bit more and it becomes hell. For them and for the others.