But do you let them play games where you have way to verify who published them? Can you at least see why some parents may not want to do this?

I personally vet every single game he plays.

I don’t let him chat with other players (text OR voice) even though I let him play multiplayer games.

We constantly talk about the dangers of online strangers and he is fully aware of “perverts” on Roblox (though he doesn’t know what tha word really means, he understands it as bad guys that want to hurt kids).

I don’t look kindly on parents that won’t do the bare minimum to protect their kids online but want to use the force of the gun on me.