| ▲ | 1whizkid1 7 hours ago | |
honestly, i do not get the hurting people thing. like ok, i do get it, but i just feel like people should be more thick skinned in general, people have said a lot of stuff about me too... but i just dont care. and like ok, if you do care, just report the post, i would have taken it down. why do you need to call the police and tell the dean to kick me out? that's just very malicious. and i mean i kind of get why people were writing bad stuff about people like these | ||
| ▲ | M95D 7 hours ago | parent | next [-] | |
Hurting with words via live speech is one thing. A website amplifies it and makes it permanent. When people say stuff, only other people around them hear, and even then it can be denied. When people write things online, what they write is public for everyone to read, and it's permanent, forever screenshotted and reposted. | ||
| ▲ | kennywinker 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |
The irony is this blog post is a massive self-own. Without a doubt, for the rest of your life some percentage of people you interact with will google you and read this post and close a door you wanted to go thru in your face. But at least it was your own choice, and it’s based on truth. For everyone who got slandered on your site it wasn’t their choice, and it may not even be true. | ||
| ▲ | kgeist 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |
>just report the post, i would have taken it down Last time someone asked to take down a post, you said "bitch come suck my dick" according to your own blog. | ||
| ▲ | janalsncm 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |
I don’t know if you will read this, but if you do maybe I can suggest a rule of thumb for posting things under your name publicly. You should assume that people don’t know you, and they will not give you the benefit of the doubt. So it is in your best interest to make your public image as unimpeachable as possible. If the person looking at your blog post is a potential employer, they will not spend a long time weighing pros and cons of your employment. They will pass you over and tell you nothing. | ||
| ▲ | jjulius 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |
They wouldn't need to report it if you hadn't put their names there without permission. Further, you signed them up to be notified of comments without their permission. Doesn't matter what people wrote about them, the simple fact is that you did that to them with their data. That you can't grasp the concept of crossing private boundaries like that is disturbing. Stop laughing about this and start looking inward. | ||
| ▲ | pavel_lishin 6 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-] | |
> if you do care, just report the post, i would have taken it down. But people explicitly asked you to take things down, and you refused from the very start. | ||
| ▲ | croes 6 hours ago | parent | prev [-] | |
So you basically created a cyberbully site and your excuse is people should be more thick skinned. Did it ever occur to you that you are the one having a problem? Maybe you have a lack of empathy or sympathy. | ||