If you are capturing I find dvgrab is pretty good. It's what I've been using for about 25 years now!

In the olden days when I got paid to shoot real video on a VX2000 and edit it for people, captured using a PCI Firewire card and dvgrab in Slackware, rewrapped with probably mencoder shading towards ffmpeg when it became more popular (and developed!), dual-boot into Windows 2000 and cut in Premiere 5.0, then back into Linux to transcode back to DV if I wanted to write it out to DV tape.

These days I shoot on a PD150 or DSR500 (and quite often some HDV cameras), capture via a PCIe Firewire card and dvgrab in Ubuntu, rewrap with ffmpeg, and edit in Resolve, without the dual-booting step.

If you use dvgrab it will split the capture up into separate clips on shot boundaries based on the pause/unpause markers on the tape. I have not found a way to extract good/no good from the stream, but if you're not shooting on a broadcast camera you don't have this anyway. Timecode is preserved though!

When you load it all up in Resolve, one of the options in the Cut page is "Source Tape View" which runs all your clips together by timecode, and lets you view them as though they were a continuous tape of your rushes, which is how we used to do basic assemble editing in the olden days of clunky tape decks and edit controllers with big rows of red 7-segment displays.

Edit your old home videos. You can do that now, and they'll be far more watchable.