I was about 12 or so when I discovered BBSes. That was way the heck back in about 1987.

1. I used to go to local computer stores to get a locally produced "magazine" - printed on news print - that was focused exclusively on computing in and around Orange County (where I lived). The back pages were all listings for locally run BBSes with their phone numbers.

We didn't have a lot of money, so most of my equipment was hand me downs. Back then, the phone company charged you by "zones" - the further from your "zone", by area code and first three digits of the phone number, the more it cost per minute to call. If they were in your same zone, it was free.

I'd sit down with the magazine and the phone book and figure out which numbers were in my zone and circle them. Then, each evening when my mother was asleep or otherwise no longer using the phone, I'd dial into each one to see what they were about.

I eventually landed on about five I'd check regularly, once a night. I played doors (online games) and participated in the online forums.

Eventually, I convinced my mom to spend the money to let me run my own BBS, which rang up as busy when I did my nightly rounds to the other systems.

2. The back pages of that magazine. I want to say it was called "OC Computing", but probably not.

3. Fragmented as hell - see my explanation for the zone system above. If you count Compuserve, Prodigy, and GEnie as BBSes - and we probably should - those were the only "big" games in town. I met folks from around the country on them.

But, otherwise, it was all local due to calling costs. We occasionally met in person at local pizza parlors so we could put faces to the handle. That was AWESOME.

4. BBSes were self limiting by location and by technical capability. In my experience, few of the discussions were especially technical. It was really a place where the BBS owners could promote their other interests or build community. Everyone looked out for each other and, over time, got to know each other pretty well. As one of the youngest in the community, they tended to especially look out for me and want to help me on my computer journey. It was an overwhelmingly positive experience.

I was a very lonely kid due to things beyond my control (I lived a 30 minute drive from where I went to school, so I never had any of those after school friendships others had. We moved a lot, so I never really had friends near me, either). When I finally went to high school near where I actually lived, I gained a group of tight friends. I slowly let the BBS go since I was getting my social life organically.

5. It was the first place I ever learned about "open source" - I'm not even sure the term was popular yet. BBSes had a lot of file download sections - usually pictures and, um... pr0n... but occasionally shareware applications. When I was learning Pascal, I found a helicopter side shooter game someone else had written and compiled in Pascal. I asked if they would share the source with me so I could learn, and they just... let me have it. It was incredible.

But that's all I remember technically. Not sure if that was just because I never focused on those things or hung out in those forums, or whether they just weren't a part of my BBS experience. I remember the BBSes being less about technology and more about community - finding friends online to meet up with offline, getting exposed to new ways of thinking, learning about cool things happening in my area...

All of that experience has inspired me to try and build a similar experience on top of the ActivityPub protocol. I just released the first version for my local community - https://sociallyconcord.com - and am actively improving it so more people will want to get on. To simulate the zone thing, joining is invite only, and you can only get an invitation code from an existing member.

I intend on eventually opening another instance for a wider community of friends and colleagues who don't live in my town.

BBSes were what social networking promised us. That we ceded control to a bunch of money-pilled perverts is the problem, not the social network itself.

> We occasionally met in person at local pizza parlors so we could put faces to the handle. That was AWESOME.

I'm curious what was the age range of most people at these meetups back then?

Also was it like all "nerds" at that point