Agreed. I lazy-load NVM to get around that:
lazy_nvm() {
unset -f nvm node npm npx
[ -s "$NVM_DIR/nvm.sh" ] && . "$NVM_DIR/nvm.sh"
}
nvm() { lazy_nvm; nvm "$@"; }
node() { lazy_nvm; node "$@"; }
npm() { lazy_nvm; npm "$@"; }
npx() { lazy_nvm; npx "$@"; }