Unfortunately Apple is learning to be as annoying too. I don't want to upgrade to Tahoe which is inscrutable to me. Maybe remind me next year. But they pop up every week reminding me to "upgrade" even though most the problems are unfixed. They have pushed iCloud in the settings application as if it is an adboard.

Hopefully they stop but I recognize these steps from Windows slippery slope.

This sucks. Sometimes they even disguise the update to Tahoe notification as "Pending updates to install later tonight".

I haven't upgraded, and the notifications are fairly rare and unintrusive.