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asveikau 11 hours ago

> worker who cares about the business being successful

In most cases, this is a sucker mentality that makes you vulnerable to abusive employers. You will stress yourself out making your boss richer. They won't care or make reciprocal gestures. They'd be happy to replace you should you become inconvenient.

yurishimo 11 hours ago | parent [-]

It’s not about stressing yourself out; that’s something you can ultimately control (though admittedly, many people are bad at separating the two) but more about _how good you are at putting on a show_ of giving a shit.

There is a non zero chance that the company I work for pivots into some weird crypto niche (low, but we’re already fintech-y). If that happens, I’m out, but no way in hell am I gonna pivot my work personality overnight because of a business decision made by the company’s board and investors.

If I need to put on a happy face for my boss to keep my job, then I’m gonna do it because I can’t afford not to at the moment. That’s not to say there is no line, but being a generally positive person in the workplace is a role I’m fine with playing. It costs me very little personally and opens a lot of doors because let’s face it, nobody likes working with a loathsome human being, even if they’re right.

Am I a sucker? Maybe by your definition, but I don’t feel like one currently.

asveikau 11 hours ago | parent [-]

> Am I a sucker? Maybe by your definition, but I don’t feel like one currently.

Part of being a sucker is not thinking you're a sucker.

> more about _how good you are at putting on a show_ of giving a shit.

> If I need to put on a happy face for my boss to keep my job,

OK, this is an entirely different thing. This is being dishonest.