Consider how bad it would have been for you/would be for you right now had they not even tried though. Impossible to "what if" the situation now but I'm sure the effort will have made at least some difference.

Oh, believe me, I have no complaints on how they raised me. They did a great job, I turned out alright. Wife, daughter, many friends, stable job.

I am just saying that anyone would have judged them poorly if they saw me spending a sunny Saturday glued to my SNES playing Romance of The Three Kingdoms IV, or going for yet another playthrough of Diablo on the PC.