Trust me. Don’t judge.

Even if you compare to other parents, you are judging the reference-parents.

If you have data over time you can draw conclusions on things you want to try as a parent.

Giving young children a tablet to silence them is still on the parents, irregardless of how the child turns out later.

What about judging judgers?

Agreed. It's not nature vs nurture, it's nature (with nurture sanding off some rough edges).