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kelseyfrog 5 hours ago

It seems like a gambling addiction is the same as not having the capacity to choose not to. Is that a misunderstanding?

rsync 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

I wish that mark pilgrim had not taken his blog off-line… He had a very insightful and moving peace about alcoholism and described it in a very striking and understandable way.

sd9 5 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I think… sort of.

I feel like you’re trying to force some sort of binary here, but I’m trying to say that you may choose not to gamble in general, on day X, but find that you do gamble later.

In fact I would say that many gambling addicts have _chosen_ _not_ to gamble in some sense, but in another moment they do find that they choose to. There’s a temporal aspect to this.

Advertising gambling to those people makes it less likely that they will follow through on their choices.

Do you always do literally everything you choose with a clear head? Never procrastinate, get angry, feel sad, whatever? It’s really hard for me to see your perspective on this.

Terr_ 4 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

I think it becomes philosophically clearer if we view it as a fight between multiple minds--or contextual operating modes--in the same person. The practical and ethical question for outsiders is which one we want to favor in the fight with the other(s).

"I want to eat this bucket of ice cream... But I also really want to not want to."

fn-mote 5 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

People in Gambler’s Anonymous (GA) would definitely disagree with this characterization.

The same way sober alcoholics would disagree with a similar statement about alcohol addiction.

kelseyfrog 5 hours ago | parent [-]

Please correct me! Gaps in my understanding are opportunities to learn something new.

I'd like to know the difference between the characterization of being "powerless over alcohol" for example and not having the capacity of choice.

1. https://www.aa.org/the-twelve-steps