> Nobody will fall in love and start a relationship/family with you for showing up and fulfilling some list of criteria.

The "date-me doc" community might disagree:

* https://www.nytimes.com/2023/08/02/style/date-me-docs.html

* https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/in-defense-of-describable-d...

* https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/highlights-from-the-comment...