+1 In any major city it's probably 90% chance they're either a crook trying to scam you out of something or mentally not quite right. The remaining 10% will be tourists or people from outside of the major city.

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majormajor 2 hours ago | parent | next [-]

You're confusing "asking people for something" with "talking to people."

Nobody wants randos coming up to them and asking for something.

Most people would be less lonely if everyone had more practice at making non-transactional conversation.

Actively avoiding conversation still qualifies as "weirdo" behavior to most people.

	▲	rzzzt 10 minutes ago \| parent [-]
		"Someday - and that day may never come" - they will be asking for something. Now you are on talking terms and it will be harder to refuse the ask, compared to the request of a complete stranger.

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nzeid 2 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

On public transit or a street, maybe. But only maybe.

Are you willfully ignoring people at bars, night clubs, supermarkets, etc?

It's obvious 99% of the time whether or not the conversation is in the wrong place and wrong time.

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barbs an hour ago | parent | prev | next [-]

In my experience that's not true at all, but I think a lot of people have that perception, which is sad.

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hluska 2 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Or they have social skills?

	▲	sieep 2 hours ago \| parent \| next [-]
		I understand what both of you are saying, I lived in areas where if someone is talking to you on the street theres a high chance theyre asking you for something, so you learn to just kinda block all of it out. Now that I moved to a smaller town, I find myself talking to strangers much more frequently.
	▲	watwut 2 hours ago \| parent \| prev [-]
		If they cone accross as mwntally ill, they dont have social skill. Per definition. Scamming crools frequently do have good social skills, but of course there is that risk of being scammed if you talk to them.