| ▲ | JohnMakin 5 hours ago |
| > That is not possible and it is extremely suppressive to express yourself. Also for the fact that you cannot predict how future powers will view past comments - for instance, certain benign political views 20 years ago could become "terroristic speech" tomorrow. I operate by a simple, general rule - I don't often say anything online I wouldn't say directly to someone's face in real life. |
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| ▲ | NetOpWibby 4 hours ago | parent | next [-] |
| > I operate by a simple, general rule - I don't often say anything online I wouldn't say directly to someone's face in real life. More people should keep this same energy. I try to stress this to my kids and it feels like it's falling on deaf ears in regards to my teen. Alas. |
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| ▲ | JohnMakin 2 hours ago | parent [-] | | I can be a rude prick online sometimes, but I can be in real life too - basically though the reason I do this is I never want it to be some huge surprise IRL if someone sees what I write online and be like, "wow, I didn't know that about him." I'm pretty much what I am online and IRL the same. For some reason this seems to matter for me, at least in the past when people have tried to like, send employers stuff I may have written online. The reaction is like "oh, yea, we knew that already about him." Nothing terrible, maybe slightly embarrassing, but you know how online spaces can be. just be yourself basically, at least I try to be. | | |
| ▲ | albumen an hour ago | parent [-] | | Your framing is interesting. You may feel that you can’t change who you are in real life, but people have a choice on how they behave online (or choose not to engage at all). So you could choose to be nice (or at least not a jerk); I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t get people writing to your employer complaining. I’d argue that if you know you’re sometimes a jerk, it’d be less stressful for you and others if you didn’t bring that energy online. |
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| ▲ | WorldPeas 27 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [-] |
| I think the problem with this, especially amongst younger people, is having spent so much time online, they don't know where to draw this line anymore. |
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| ▲ | actionfromafar 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-] |
| Interesting. You could probably get into trouble in those two places for extremely different things you said. |
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