| ▲ | epolanski 4 hours ago | |||||||
Boring, not bored. | ||||||||
| ▲ | WhompingWindows 4 hours ago | parent [-] | |||||||
The author seems more about authenticity than boring-ness. And using the label boring vs bored, it comes to a similar outcome. If I say, that guy is boring, he's inauthentic/poser/wanna-be, in my opinion I've failed that interaction. I am not engaging with him, I label him too mundane. Yet, every person has genuine authenticity and need for connection, if you're attentive and patient enough to see it. If you go around being frank and blasting your true opinions and true passions at everyone, you may miss a chance to learn more about them themselves, and move past the "boring" label you're putting, to see the real, struggling, suffering, but inherently interesting person underneath. | ||||||||
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