At this point Tailscale is working so well and I'm so happy with it that I'm afraid it's time to start migrating to Headscale [0] for my home network. The rag pull may just be too painful otherwise!

[0]: https://headscale.net/

I've been smoothly running headscale on a hetzner vps for many months now. Works without issues (note that it does lack some features still).