Intelligence is about acquiring and utilizing knowledge. Reasoning is about making sense of things. Words are concatenations of letters that form meaning. Inference is tightly coupled with meaning which is coupled with reasoning and thus, intelligence. People are paying for these monthly subscriptions to outsource reasoning, because it works. Half-assedly and with unnerving failure modes, but it works.

What you probably mean is that it is not a mind in the sense that it is not conscious. It won't cringe or be embarrassed like you do, it costs nothing for an LLM to be awkward, it doesn't feel weird, or get bored of you. Its curiosity is a mere autocomplete. But a child will feel all that, and learn all that and be a social animal.