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bnchrch 5 hours ago

Its a real issue in North America.

SMS and as a result iMessage is the dominant text based chat.

iPhones have become the default smartphone, and is a status symbol compared to Android.

Mac vs Windows is similar on the laptop front.

Which means if your an Android user in a relatively average social group:

* You will get left out of group messages

* You will be starting on a back foot in the dating scene

On top of you wont be able to answer messages from friends on your laptop, because again, sms is dominant, not whatsapp.

Now don't shoot the messenger here. I don't like it either, but this is the social/technical reality in NA at the moment.

(sigh: receiving downvotes)

chmod775 4 hours ago | parent | next [-]

> iPhones have become the default smartphone, and is a status symbol compared to Android.

It does not function as a status symbol in the west. It's not a big deal to get one if you really want to and live in a developed country. People in asian countries making 1/8th of their american counterparts can afford iPhones. Someone making minimum wage in Germany can buy one using about 3-4 months worth of saved disposable income. In the states they'll throw one after you on credit without looking at you twice. It's only a status symbol if you want to set yourself apart from someone living in Zimbabwe... oh wait they also have lots of iPhone users. From who exactly? Afghanis?

Honestly if the bar for status symbol's is that low, you should sooner consider excercise and good dietary habits. These days in many western counties that will do many orders of magnitude more for how people perceive you and your dating life. Certainly more than what flavour of annoying chiming piece of shit you bought.

bnchrch 3 hours ago | parent [-]

Unfortunately for us, logic isn't the arbiter of social behaviour.

Heres some examples

- https://www.reddit.com/r/Android/comments/1nt7czg/do_iphone_...

- https://www.reddit.com/r/samsung/comments/14rhes2/friends_in...

- https://www.reddit.com/r/Nicegirls/comments/1ja3iy4/green_bu...

- https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/17xrue5/are_y...

- https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/b6w9iu/oh...

- https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/f1i3q8/this_is_why_...

- https://www.reddit.com/r/Android/comments/rz4wlp/why_apples_...

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One more:

https://mashable.com/article/iphone-users-think-less-of-andr...

chmod775 3 hours ago | parent [-]

I might have a bridge to sell you.

What says a lot is that you had to dredge up some up to 7 years old posts on reddit, on which replies still overwhelmingly call the idea silly. This smells like an attempt to manufacture consent, but it'd be pretty low effort for even that.

As a rule, if something sounds stupid to you, it will probably be just as silly to most people you should give a damn about. Certainly don't let some posts that look like the lowest-effort FUD imaginable tell you what other people think.

bnchrch 2 hours ago | parent [-]

I may have something to teach you about indicators, averages, and population samples/biases.

We're not debating majority opinion here. Just that people exist who have that bias / perception and what it leads to.

People exist that judge and exclude based on if you have have an Android.

Im sure the reverse exits too.

Im also sure the former is more common than the later.

But I have no idea how large that population is.

Just like Im not in that population.

drnick1 3 hours ago | parent | prev | next [-]

> * You will be starting on a back foot in the dating scene

Perhaps you should be focusing on losing weight instead of blaming the color of your text messages, lmao.

bnchrch 2 hours ago | parent [-]

Fit, happy, married and have the cognitive ability to not conflate the message with the messenger.

driverdan 4 hours ago | parent | prev [-]

Sounds like a good way to filter out assholes. Anyone who cares what phone you use in this way is someone you don't want in your life.

bnchrch 4 hours ago | parent [-]

Maybe, but let me pose you mental model that a lot of NA iPhone users have.

For a long time, if you were on iOS and added a android user to your group chat. All threading was broken. It was no longer a group chat just a bunch of out of band messages.

So iOS users naturally started leaving the android user out of the chat. They would text their 5 friends on iOS in one group to make plans, then text their Android friend separately to update them when plans were made.

I believe this is relatively fixed in latest iOS, but that habit is still very much their in iOS users today.

Anecdotally I did just experience a group chat of 4 iOS users this year that was very active, then died when one person switched to Android.